I’m pretty sure I am not the only person that feels that if you can’t be by your damn self for two fu*king minutes than you may have an issue. Stop relying on someone to give you the self validation that you swear you have. Stop with the self-loathing and pity parties because no one owes you anything. When you have to constantly fight for attention from any and everyone; it just makes you look pathetic. Instead of looking for love, Love your damn self because at the end of the day, you are all that you have. At the beginning it may seem nice but as time moves forward, you will continue to be lost because you never took the time to heal. I’m only stating facts because I have been there! I have invested all my time, effort, energy into someone and in the end I was left by my damn self. But, the strength comes from starting over and learning how to properly love and that can only start with you. Stop jumping from person to person and expect that void to be filled. A partner is not there for completion, if you are not fully 100% satisfied with you than FOCUS ON YOU. Look at that person in the mirror and start loving them more. If that person gets tired of carrying your burdens, YOUR ASS IS GRASS. A hit dog will holler and I am just being completely honest but guess what? It’s better than your ass being BACK TO SQUARE ONE….